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How do you know if you’re sexually compatible with someone? 

By Tuva Novar

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You have matching sex drives

One of the simplest and most important means of knowing that you’re sexually compatible with someone is to check if your sex drives match. Mismatched sex drives often lead to therapy, so if you have this box checked, you’re off to a great start.

Essentially, this means that you both desire sex at similar frequencies. So, if you prefer sex once in a week and your partner prefers is twice a day, that can be a bit of an issue.

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You kiss the same way

Most sexual encounters start with kissing, so it definitely helps that you and your partner kiss the same way. While there are several ways of kissing, most people choose the style that makes them feel most comfortable. However, kissing styles go a long way in determining sexual compatibility, because they form a type of synchronicity that makes it easy for sexy to flow. 

In addition to that, kissing can help you to subconsciously figure out the long-term comparability between you and your partner. 

Don’t overlook this at all.

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Your spark is immediate

It isn’t particularly love at first sight, but it can help to have a quick connection with someone. A lot of people believe that sparks don’t come suddenly and can’t make sex better, but those are just cynics. 

Now, while you might not know all you need to about the person’s body or preferences from the beginning, it surely helps if you have a spark that sets things rolling immediately. A great sign that you are both headed down the right path. 

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You both deliberately make time for sex

This is undoubtedly important. If you and your partner make the conscious effort to have sex, then it would feel like less of a chore and more of a pleasurable act: precisely what it should be.

If only one person is making the time for sex, then the burden could get too much keep in mind that sexual connection is a two-way street, and it required the efforts of both partners to be built. Otherwise, there could be a problem down the line.

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You both enjoy similar things

This is all other natural ways to find out if you and your partner are sexually compatible. When you both enjoy the same thing, reciprocating is easy. One person might feel okay with oral sex, while another might feel weirded out by it. If this is the case, convincing one person to engage in, it won’t be very easy, and it can affect the pleasure derived by the person who wants it.

Also, when you both like similar things, pleasuring each other is much less of a chore. There are chances that you have both had sex before, so you know where to begin when it comes to seeing sexual pleasure for your partner as far as an act is considered.

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