Sex should be fun, especially when both parties are into each other. However, at one point you might experience an awkward moment. It does not matter if you are dating the guy or it’s just a one-night stand.
Whether it is the first time, second or thirtieth time that you are having sex with the person, unexpected things happen all the time. I remember a few years back I was so horny and I could not wait for my boyfriend to penetrate me. He was the biggest I have ever hard and at times I could feel his dick in my stomach. So, on this particular day, he started fucking me doggy.
I was so close to cumming when he saw my birth control ring on his dick. He felt like he had won a carnival game and we could not stop laughing about it. Here are a few examples of the most awkward situations that might happen in bed.
Asking for something new in bed
People have different fetishes, desires and wild thoughts. Your partner might ask for something that seems unusual or weird to you.
Be considerate and try to explain to them it is something you are not comfortable with at the moment. However, you can try it soon. Besides, if you are spontaneous and open-minded you can try with them
Failure to orgasm
Whether you are having sex with a long-time partner or someone you just met, you can cum too quickly, too late or fail to cum at all. For women, it is very hard to cum with penetration alone and there are many reasons which can make one not to cum.
Don’t let this experience make you feel inadequate, undesirable or unattractive. Enjoy the journey of lovemaking and do not be too focused on the end goal.
Unexpected noises
Queefs popularly known as vaginal farts happen when air is pushed into the vagina and needs to be released during penetration. Therefore, there is nothing you can do about it. The best solution is to make fun and laugh about it. People pick and react to the energy you give.
So, if you are disgusted and humiliated by your vaginal farts, your partner will also be uncomfortable about it.No erection at all – This can be so embarrassing for both parties. The lady might think she is doing the wrong thing and the guy might think he has a medical problem.
Relax, breath and try again.
Squirting
Not everyone is into squirting. Some people find it weird and dirty.
Calling your partner, a different name
Shit happens, just try to reassure them and make them feel loved and adored.
Getting your period
A girl can start her periods anytime. It is so normal and there is nothing weird about it. If you are into period sex, you will continue fucking.
However, if you are not, you can explore whatever you guys are comfortable with.
Losing concentration
This might hurt your partner's feelings. It is always advisable to try and focus and be present.
Getting a muscle pull
Imagine getting a bad muscle pull during sex and you have to stop before you cum.
