Sex and Age- Does Age difference matters in sexual relationship?

By Sara Fleming

Does Age difference matters in sexual relationship? Or Does age difference can be an issue of concern for intercourse? There is no good answer of these questions. Perhaps the best answer is, “it depends”. Love surmounts all ages and warm relationship is a logical continuation to romantic infatuation.

Just like other relationships, there is no surety that things will work out or not when there is much age difference in the age of the couple. However, there is plenty of evidence that suggests it can work out; even, the majority of people have sexual fantasies even at 80 and 90 years of age. You just have to keep a few things in mind so age difference does not become a problem.

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Undeniably, sex when you are 80 is totally different from the sex when you are 20, nevertheless it does not mean that sexual life at an older age cannot bring pleasure and satisfaction. Moreover, these days it is very common to date someone who is a few years younger or older than you, and now the age difference is not a big deal.

Sometimes, maturity levels match, even when ages do not. But when the age disparity is bigger, there are many other things to consider. Furthermore, an age gap of a few years may not seem like a concern, but things such as anticipations, priorities and general interests can change rapidly as you get older. Accepting the changes that take place in your body or in your partner's body with age can help you to get ready for some possible sexual issues.

Firstly, there are some natural age changes. As everyone knows, organism ages and our body wears out, and these natural age changes can influence our sexual life. And though most often talk about physical changes, we should not ignore the psychological changes as well.

Let's first discuss about the physical changes. Testosterone directs the sexual attraction in men and women both. With the age the body of the humans starts to produce the necessary amount of testosterone to uphold their interest in sex. And though with the age some aspects of sex that we have grown familiarized become difficult, these changes are a great spur to try new positions and methods.

The main changes in the woman’s body are related to the menopause and the lowering of the hormone estrogen's level. The production of vaginal lubricant while arousing takes more time. The vagina loses its flexibility and suppleness. All of this makes the sexual intercourse less pleasing or even aching. Not only this, women may also feel burning during sex or can also develop bleeding after sexual intercourse is over.

To inspire the natural production of the vaginal lubricant, one should try to engage in the foreplay. One more solution of this problem is using a water based lubricant or using a cream that contains estrogen. Also, going through an estrogen-replacing therapy can be a good option. Regular sex can also help to continue the normal production of the vaginal lubricant and the elasticity of the vagina. 

Long asceticism may cause the vagina to lose its elasticity therefore it will take some time to stretch it for the penis.

Now let's discuss about the psychological changes. Sustaining the ability to employ in sexual activities at an old age not only depends on your body but also on your realization. If you are mortified of your sexual needs, fretfulness and anxiety can pessimistically affect the ability to experience sexual arousal.

The age related changes in your appearance may influence your emotional frankness and ability to enter into an intimate relationship. Your self-esteem may become lower with more wrinkles and grey hairs you notice. You feel unappealing. The unenthusiastic self-image restrains the sexual drive since you feel undeserving of sexual interest from your partner.

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So, how sexual life can be improved with age?

Lots of elder people think that their intimate life is not fuller as they used to have when they used to be young. They are persuaded that with age sex only becomes better alike to good wine. With the intention of improving your sexual life you need to expand your view on sex. Sex is not only a number of physical exercises to attain pleasure.

Sex does not come down to sexual interaction. With age many people start to have the communication before and after sex, which makes the intimacy brighter. Touching and petting may become a great alternative to sexual intercourse; even the simplest hug may cause an orgasm. For this you should have more communication with your partner. Nothing can draw you closer with your partner as communication.

And do not be shy to share the changes that you are going through with your partner to understand how you can chuck out discomforts to make sex better. For this, the best solution is to try a new position or a new type of sexual communication such as massage. The discussion of sex can also be an excellent foreplay.

Try to introduce changes to your sexual practice because changes can improve your intimate life. Try to do sex at a time when you feel the most surge of energy such as you can try sex in the morning when you are full of strength after a good night sleep than postponing it until the end of the day when you are worn out and dog-tired. You should try to create romantic environment such as a romantic dinner, a party for just the two of you or dancing.

Also, take care of yourself. Healthy eating and regular physical exercise can help you to maintain good shape and even to maintain your readiness for sex at any age. Consume a balanced diet having fruits and vegetables. Drink less alcohol because it can lower both sexual potency of both males and female.

Do not forget about safe sex when you are going to start a new sexual relationship. Most of the older people neglect it because they are sure that they are not in danger of getting infected with an STD including AIDS.

All in all, keep up mention tips in mind and make yourself fall madly in love regardless of age.

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