Question

I get generally uncomfortable about sex.
What can I do about that?

It is rather understandable to be uncomfortable about sex. Most of the time, people who experience this are more likely to have never experienced sex before, or perhaps they just have some questions.

Sometimes, people who have had sex before could also get a bit squirmish when it comes to sex. Regardless of what it is, don’t worry about it too much.

There are a lot of people who are just like you.

When the time comes for you and your man to get between the sheets, everyone feels some level of anxiety. You don’t know if the mood will be fine, you don’t know if you will like what you see, and you don’t even know if you look or feel sexy enough.

However, the best way to ensure that you can get more comfortable will be to take control. If this is your first time, try having sex at your place and not his. You know your place better than anyone else, and you are empire familiar with the surroundings. This provides more comfort and calmness.

Also, try to make sure that you set the right mood. Since you already know what you like, try to replicate that, although you will want to keep your man in mind as well and not make him uncomfortable too.

By setting the mood and keeping everything relaxed, you can overcome that unease and perform at your best.

However, for people who have had sex before and stop feel uncomfortable, the first step is to look inward and identify the reason why you are uncomfortable. If you feel that you’re not attractive enough, then slip into your sexiest lingerie. If you’re worried about how you will perform, then you can watch a little porn to see how well you can move and some other things you can try to rock his world.

If the problem is more in your head, then perhaps speaking to a therapist will be the best choice.

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