How to have the best phone sex

Av Makena Keita

Are you interested in learning how to have sexy phone sex? Are you horny but your significant other is not around? Maybe you are on a business trip, and you would like to explore your wild side. You are at the right place. Check out this article to learn a thing or two.

Most people will tell you that sexting is necessary if you want to keep your long-distance relationship hot till you see your partner again. This is excellent advice, but trust me, it will become dull and routine. It can also be hard for some people. Writing down every detail of how you feel or what you want to be done to you can be tiresome to some.

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Besides, those long minute delays as you wait for your partner to reply to the text messages can be annoying. Luckily, we have done a well-detailed summary of phone sex tips that will take your sex life a notch higher.

It will also work on your phone sex inhibitions and probably make your sex life with your partner better. I remember the first time I had phone sex with my ex-BF. I was so horny, and I had not seen him in more than 2 months.

The sexual tension between us was becoming too much, and I wanted a quick relief. Before that, I was horny 24 hours, but we had made a promise to each other, not to masturbate.

This was a way of us building on the anticipation of seeing each other. So, on this particular day, I had enough, and I was on the verge of exploding with desire.

My ex-BF was the calm and collected type. His voice alone could keep my juices flowing between my legs. To cut a long story short, that was the fastest and intense orgasm I have ever had. It was a significant success because we were both on the same page and knew the exact words to say, and how to tell them.

To have great sex and exquisite experience, you need to let loose, don’t be self-conscious and also do not be afraid of getting turned on or orgasming no matter how stupid you might feel. People think phone sex is all about talking dirty on the phone or using several profanity words.

There is a lot more to it than that. Also, what a lot of people do not realize if the fact that the brain plays such a huge role. It is the biggest sexual organ in the human anatomy.

woman petting herself when talking in the phone

When you moan, breathe slowly or talk dirty, you are using your brain. However, if you need help in perfecting the art of how to have sexy phone sex, don’t worry, we got you covered. Besides, if you have a roommate or leave with other people in the house, make sure you are in a private room.

You do not want someone walking in on you while you are vigorously rubbing your clit. Lying on your bed, with the bedroom door closed is the best option. Do not forget to clean up your room if you are having phone sex on a video call. You do not want to have your partner distracted because of dirty laundry all over the place. Therefore, make sure your location is suitable.

Do not be shy.

First and foremost, you need to relax and let loose. Find a good time that works best for you and your partner. You don’t want to be in the middle of your call then your significant other gets an urgent call from the office. Also, you need to know your partner.

By this I mean I mean about the non-sexual stuff. You can start a conversation about the general thing to set the mood less tensed. Also, make sure that your technology which is the internet or your phone credit is in check.

You do not want to be disconnected in the middle of a raunchy conversation because your phone bill needs to be replenished. Besides, look the part and also set the mood.

Make sure that you are clean. I like to be in sexy lingerie when I know there is a chance of having video phone sex with my BF. Phone sex is hard coz your partner is not there physically. You have to turn them on without touching them.

Feed their senses with words, moans, and visuals. Also, most people prefer putting in some sexy music in the background to set the mood. Whatever makes your boat float is exceptionally okay. Remember this is a two-way show, mutual masturbation.

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If you cannot talk dirty, try and moan seductively.

Tell your partner how sexy they are and how they turn you on. Remind them what you like most about them, especially sexually and how you love making love to them. Also, please pay close attention to their body language.

Observe what they are doing and how they are responding to your words and actions. At times I am tempted to check myself out during video call phone sex. However, this is not good because you have to focus on your partner and not yourself solely.

Finally, phone sex is the best way to role-play your partner’s desires, kinks or fetishes. If your partner is into a particular fetish that you are not comfortable with, the best way to try out is through phone sex. Especially if you are not ready to take it to the next step.

You can do your research and learn a thing or two about it. Know the exact words, how to use them, and when to use them. Learn the art of pleasing, teasing and seduction.