There are quite a lot of ways that we women get our men to feel amazing orgasms. Since you might want always to have sex and have him penetrate you, some innovative ways could work just as well. One of those is the prostate massage.
If you want to give an excellent prostate massage, then you will need to at least understand his prostate and what it entails.
The prostate gland is an organ that forms part of a man’s endocrine system. Essentially, it secretes the prostate fluid (a part of sperm). It’s usually found below the bladder and around the urethra.
However, the prostate organ can also help to bring about some amazing orgasms out of the gate. It is a prominent acupressure point, and by working it pretty well, you can deliver your man some amazing orgasms.
Now, there are two ways for you to access your man’s prostate organ. You can access it through his anal lining, which is about 2 inches in his anus. Crook your fingers and to towards his testicles and you’ll find it.
However, I prefer locating the prostate organ through his perineum – that rough area between his anus and his testicles.
If you can push through the skin, you should be able to stimulate it. Just watch for when he starts showing signs of an orgasm, and you’ll see what I mean.
When he gets an orgasm through contact with his prostate, I don’t care how hard of a guy he is - he will feel that one for sure.
A prostate massage is an excellent way to get your man to get an orgasm. However, if you’ll get it done the right way, you must get things right.
To begin with, I understand that you might be worried about the whole prostate massage because you think it could get a bit messy. Well, the truth is that as long as there is a chance of playing with your man’s anus, there is always the chance of some faecal matter. However, some necessary precautions can help you both prepare for and avoid this:
Make sure that he just recently used the toilet. He can have a high-fibre diet before you try the prostate massage since fibre helps to improve bowel movement. Trust me- you don’t want to do anything with his anus if he needs to go to the toilet
Clean the entire area. Get wet wipes, wash with water, and make sure he cleans his anus as thoroughly as he can.
He can shower. Better yet, you could shower together and help build that orgasm straight from the beginning.
As for you, it’s also essential that you prepare too. Make sure you clip your nails and make them smooth. It’s always a great idea when you’re manually stimulating him, and you need to get your hands dirty – figuratively, of course.
Also, you might feel significantly better if you use a barrier to get to his prostate organ. Slip a condom over a finger or two, and you should be more than dandy. You could also try using a glove, but I won’t recommend that you use latex if any of you is allergic to the material. That’s a lousy way to go – trust me. Of course, latex condoms should be thrown out of the window if any of you has allergies.
Just get the glove and lubricate the fingers. This will help to improve entry and penetration, and it can also help to improve the sensation he gets when you touch him so he can orgasm even better.
For some couples, sex toys also work magic. If you believe that you won’t be comfortable with your fingers, then a sex toy is a fantastic way to go. All of these will make it safe for you to get his prostate organ and can help give you peace of mind too: