All you need to know about Sextoys

By Makena Keita

There is a misconception that sex toys are for single people. Besides, If you are an open-minded person, who loves exploring your sexuality, sex toys can spice up your sex life and relationship. Most marriage counsellors always advise couples to try new things in the bedroom, and sex toys are the most recommended remedy.

I remember the first time I bought a purple, rabbit vibrator. It was after a long relationship of 3 years, and I had gotten used to one dick. However, after the breakup, I could not go out on dates because I was hungover my sex. Besides, I did not want to have meaningless sex with strangers. I was sexually frustrated and always horny.

I talked to one of my close friends, and she suggested I should try out sex toys. In the beginning, I was hesitant about it, but I realized there was nothing I was going to lose from trying.

So, I went online and searched for the best clit massager. I also looked around for a toy that had the best thrusts and vibrations. To cut a long story short, I can honestly say sex toys changed my life for the better.

Depending on your sexual needs, there are different types of sex toys. We have vaginal sex toys and anal toys. They are both designed for maximum pleasure, and you can incorporate them into your sex life.

However, you have to discuss it with your lover and come into an understanding that you both want to try them out. 

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Before buying any sex toy,
you should know the following five things.

  • Personal preference – What feels right for one person, might not feel like heaven for either. Just because you are into anal toys does not mean your partner will be thrilled with pegging or anal beads. 

  • Always start small – I am mesmerized by big monster dicks, and I would love to try one. But, that does not mean I can go to a sex store and purchase a monster dick just because I am into them. It is always advisable to start small and grow in sex as time progresses.

  • Be patient and do your research - YouTube vlogs and blogs are very resourceful. It is good to do a little bit of research on the different types of sex toys and their specs before deciding on buying one. You can also check out user reviews and comments to make the best choice.

  • Communication is critical – when it comes to sex toys communication is vital. It is good to let your partner know the sensations the sex toy is giving you so that they can note and do it again. More so, if you start to feel numb or uncomfortable, tell your partner too.

  • Safety first – When buying your sex toys, make sure you are buying something that will not harm your health or need an emergency room. For example, anal toys should have a broad base to prevent them from being fully inserted into the anus. Enjoy pleasure in a safe and healthy environment.

How to clean sex toys

After your mind-blowing orgasm, it is advisable to clean the paraphernalia that made your toes curl. Otherwise, you are at risk of being infected with a sexually transmitted disease, bacterial or yeast infection. Dirty and Infected sex toys can cause some nasty anal and vaginal infections. More so, if you have been sharing your sex toys with an infected significant other. Therefore, it is crucial to learn how to clean and disinfect your toys.

For new toys, they have passed through machinery and so many hands and picked all types of germs. Besides, after use, there are some STIs that die immediately once the fluid has dried up. However, some STIs such as hepatitis can live for months outside the body.

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Tips below for the best infection-free orgasms.

  • Know the material your sex toy is made off – Sex toys are made of non-porous or porous materials.


Non-porous materials are things that do not absorb liquid or gas. They include glass, stainless steel, silicone, and hard plastics.

Glass – For your sex toys which are made of glass, you can clean them with warm disinfected water and soap. However, it is essential to note that exposing glass to extremely high temperatures can make the toys break or crack.

Stainless steel – Also use warm soapy water to clean. You can put the toys in a pot and boil to disinfect them. Also, if you have a dishwasher, you can use it too.

Hard plastic – Clean hard plastic toys with warm disinfected soapy water. However, do not boil them or expose them to extremely high temperatures.

Silicone sex toys – Silicone toys can be put in boiling water to disinfect them, wash with warm soapy water or use a dishwasher.

Porous materials

These are sex toys that absorb liquid and gas.

They have holes and pores, which make it easy for liquid and gas to pass through them. They include toys made from latex, leather, Cyberskin, rubber.

Cleaning porous materials might not be 100% possible. It is advisable to use condoms to prevent sexually transmitted diseases, especially if you are not sure about your partner's health status.

However, you can still clean them with minimal soapy water.

  • Mild soap - When cleaning your sex toys, use a gentle cleanser that is free of harsh ingredients and fragrance. This is to avoid vaginal or anal irritation. Using mild soapy water can also alter the pH balance of the vagina.

  • Sex toys cleaning sprays and wipes –These are formulated to clean sex toys and have the necessary ingredients to disinfect them. They are pocket-friendly and ease the hustle of washing sex toys using a dishwasher or soapy water.

  • Do not submerge motorized toys in water – If your sex toy is attached to electrical code, do not fully submerge it in water. Otherwise, you risk being electrocuted when connected to a power source.

  • Always use a clean towel – after washing your sex toys, use a super clean, dry cloth to dry them or dry paper tissues. Never store your toys before they have thoroughly dried or when moist.

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